Vibes & Deep Convos

Vibe: mood or character of a person, place or thing.

When you walk into a room full of new people, how do you process meeting them? Do you immediately get a vibe from a short conversation with them? Or do you just observe them and immediately formulate an opinion? Do you like people or hate them in the first encounter? Do you give people more than one opportunity to click? Now think about the people in your life and how you pick up on their energies? Are you more sensitive to some individuals? Have you ever wondered what makes you more compatible with certain people? Do you think a person’s energy can be felt telepathically?

Lately, I have been thinking a lot about human connection and the whole idea of picking up on someone’s energy. Out of all the people that are part of our lives, we probably only connect with a handful. We are so diverse, in our ways of thinking and behaving so it makes sense why we don’t connect with everyone. But what really feeds these deep connections we make? I have noticed in my interactions with different people in my life, that there are levels of emotional intelligence in each interaction. There are some people in my life that I love dearly and have a great relationship with but our discussions are rarely deep thought provoking ones. The reasoning behind this is emotional intelligence and appreciation of vulnerability. I saw something on the gram yesterday that said “I really love when someone opens up to me and considers me as their safe place”. That really stuck with me and made me ponder on the deep and emotionally charged conversations I have had. The best way I can describe these conversations is in the following way: the brief alignment or exchange of energy between two souls. This is my excessively introspective definition of a deep conversation. It is really such a beautiful feeling to reach that depth with someone and sometimes not much has to be said to feel that good energy. Those are the types of conversations you hold near and dear to your heart.

Here is some food for thought to end this post.. Think about the last deep conversation you had. How was it initiated? How did it make you feel? How long did it take for you to build that trust to even have that type of conversation? Do you miss having deep conversations with someone in particular?

Everytime you engage in a deep conversation think about the beautiful connection you have been able to build with that person, that is something few people have believe it or not.

Whenever I think of deep conversations, this song comes to mind. “If you have a minute, why don’t we go. Talk about it somewhere only we know. This could be the end of everything. So why don’t we go somewhere only we know?”